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Post by mikeman on Oct 24, 2024 13:48:48 GMT
So you tell her... "Hey, I'm going to be near that bar you work at on Xday. I was wondering what time you get off work and if you'd like to go somewhere for a drink?" That's pretty standard and solid advice. Unfortunately she followed up with me asking about her music with some $300 item that she needed for her dj'ing. I told her that he music was pretty awesome and she didn't need anything. I got a ? as a response lol. She's been silent since, but there's still hope here. I figure girls this hot and in the dj scene need to just be left alone to let the mystery build. Worst case scenario she can be my waitress at Taco Mac again. Also funny the differing advice of men and women. Every chick says "pursue pursue pursue I would lose total interest if a guy did nothing." Every guy's advice is "do absolutely nothing she's being bombarded by 100 dudes trying like pathetic losers. You stand out by doing nothing."
When she brings up these items she needs and the cost, tell her that pawn shops or even goodwill might have it cheap. that'll impress her.
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Post by gmcarroll33 on Oct 24, 2024 15:27:18 GMT
That's pretty standard and solid advice. Unfortunately she followed up with me asking about her music with some $300 item that she needed for her dj'ing. I told her that he music was pretty awesome and she didn't need anything. I got a ? as a response lol. She's been silent since, but there's still hope here. I figure girls this hot and in the dj scene need to just be left alone to let the mystery build. Worst case scenario she can be my waitress at Taco Mac again. Also funny the differing advice of men and women. Every chick says "pursue pursue pursue I would lose total interest if a guy did nothing." Every guy's advice is "do absolutely nothing she's being bombarded by 100 dudes trying like pathetic losers. You stand out by doing nothing."
When she brings up these items she needs and the cost, tell her that pawn shops or even goodwill might have it cheap. that'll impress her. Well that's at least direct and too the point that I'd be the man that can guide her with his mind to cost effective strategies, but are 100% not going to be a sugar daddy. Nobody needs that in their life.
I'm laying low. We'll see if she says anything over the weekend when she's high on Molly after her dj'ing.
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Post by gmcarroll33 on Oct 24, 2024 15:39:09 GMT
what was kinger buying those gals, i recall toasters or blenders, furniture and lamps, he was even buying her dad shit, LOL. The only thing you need to buy her is dinner and drinks. Dinner is a 2nd date. Drinks for the 1st is the most cost effective way not to blow a ton of money to see if you even like each other.
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Post by gmcarroll33 on Oct 24, 2024 15:42:18 GMT
We're gonna get a successful story out of this. I mean she never even had to text me or once she saw my pic followed with the "mmmmm" and her own selfie. Game on! no offense, pal, but you are an easy mark. Why's that bc I'm not married, white and good looking enough to a young Colombian girl working as a waitress? I don't fully understand the Colombian girl intentions and mindset of white dudes in general but assumed they're just like any woman that wants to be taken care of and thinks all white dudes from the US are made of money.
One of my Colombian chick friends told me years ago that if I went down to Cali or Bogota they'd be absolutely in love with me with my blue eyes and all. I think this cutie pie couldn't get past the MAGA hat though. I basically cheated.
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Post by wvu on Oct 24, 2024 17:13:10 GMT
from my experience Colombian girls are all about that money. She doesn't give 2 shits about your looks is my guess.
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Post by gmcarroll33 on Oct 24, 2024 18:03:06 GMT
from my experience Colombian girls are all about that money. She doesn't give 2 shits about your looks is my guess. Fair enough. I thought that was more a Persian thing but maybe that's just all women.
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Post by gmcarroll33 on Oct 24, 2024 18:05:48 GMT
I'll just lay low and pull the ole cat and mouse game, and ask her to drinks if she reaches out again. She probably has 100 dudes shooting their shot.
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Post by gmcarroll33 on Oct 24, 2024 18:10:51 GMT
I really think another trip up there in the MAGA hat will seal the deal. The ultimate cheat code.
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Post by wvu on Oct 24, 2024 18:26:18 GMT
turn the tables on her. Ask her if she can spot you a cnote until next Friday.
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Post by gmcarroll33 on Oct 24, 2024 18:45:01 GMT
turn the tables on her. Ask her if she can spot you a cnote until next Friday. That might be too aggressive of coming across as a broke loser. You told me Colombians are all about the money. Women aren't complicated creatures. You just bs them and act interested in their goofy interests, get in their pants, and then deal with their bs. I have an avenue here.
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Post by gmcarroll33 on Oct 25, 2024 4:56:08 GMT
Well not a word today. I guess I bored her or she od'ed on Molly. I'll keep ya'll updated but I'm doing absolutely nothing from here.
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Post by elchapo2025 on Oct 25, 2024 12:37:25 GMT
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Post by gmcarroll33 on Oct 25, 2024 13:23:57 GMT
Not sure why you think this is fake and made up ElChapo especially since I don't even remotely have a success story out it.
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Post by professor on Oct 25, 2024 18:11:42 GMT
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Post by gmcarroll33 on Oct 25, 2024 18:23:41 GMT
Es verdad I’m not making this up but also haven’t heard anything from her so it’s not like I have a success story or anything Attachments:
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